About Ukrainian Women From A Woman’s Point Of View | Sexuality & Age

AS we promised in her last post, here is part two of the interview with the lovely Ukrainian dating advice blogger, Krystyna Trushyna. We welcome any comments and if you have any questions to ask Krystyna, we will try to have her reply.

Gary: You see a multitude of articles and posts talking about the age difference of men looking for younger brides on the internet and rightly so since this is a very important topic. I know that there are plenty of guys in their mid 40’s and older that are communicating with much younger women but how much of an age difference would you consider when starting a relationship with a foreign man? What would be acceptable?

Take for instance a 50 year old guy who is writing to a 25 – 30 year old woman. A man in his 50’s may be happy having intimate relations with a woman once or twice a week whereas a 30 year old woman who is in her prime years may require sexual intimacy on a more regular basis. It’s a fact of life that men slow down in their later years.

This can be a huge problem in a marriage, probably second only to finances.

I guess my advice to men is don’t put to many years between you and your potential bride and be sure you are physically fit and active. You need to be sure you can keep up with the woman you have chosen for a wife or chances are she may find another man that can make her happy. It’s as simple as that.

Ukrainian dating advice blogger Krystyna Trushyna

Ukrainian blogger Krystyna Trushyna

Krystyna, I would like to hear what the women really think about the age difference and what they feel is acceptable. Can you talk about this from a woman’s perspective?

Krystyna: Well, the age difference between Western men and Ukrainian women is a very interesting thing. I can understand very well why American and European men want to date and get to marry a much younger Ukrainian or Russian woman. Who does not want to have a beautiful, young and fresh woman in his life?! ?

I think that the age difference is an individual thing. Some Russian and Ukrainian women like older men and feel very secure in the relationship. Others dislike the fact that the partner is much older, and the age differences of the 3-5 years are sufficient for such women.

There are a lot of nice examples showing that persons in the relationship with the large age difference can be happy, too. The best example for me is the relationship between Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas. However, Western men need to understand that they have to deal with the energy and sexuality of Ukrainian women. 50 year old guys and 25-30 year old women are people of different generations, and it means there can be a lot of understanding problems.

Guys, you have to consider whether you are ready for a relationship with a large age difference. You have to think about how long you will be able to be active and keep up with your younger woman. For example, I’m a very active young woman, love dancing, enjoying life, going on holiday and meeting my young friends. Would you join all these things with me? If you would, you can date a younger Ukrainian and Russian woman.

Believe me! Even a forty-year-old woman from Ukraine or Russia can be beautiful, tender and sensual and can make you happy forever ?.

Gary: And lastly,

Krystyna, you told me that you were a photo model at one time and we certainly appreciate the beautiful photos you have provided. I guess I would like to know if you have received any marriage proposals through your Ukrainian online dating blog? I guess I should have first asked, are you even interested in finding a partner through your web blog?

Krystyna: I was a student and had to earn some money for my life in Germany. I worked as a photo model for one year five years ago. It was a nice time ? Western men write me to ask for tips and advice in dating Ukrainian women. I see that many men do now know how to deal and impress beautiful East European women. And I try to help them. But nobody has made me any marriage proposals through my dating. I think it could be very funny and… modern!



No, I am not interested in finding a partner through my blog because I have a partner already and I am happy in this relationship ? My aim is writing about Ukrainian women and helping Western men to start to understand us, strange and beautiful Ukrainian and Russian women.

Gary: Thank you for taking the time to share a woman’s insight into online dating and romance with us.

Krystyna: Thank you very much for your interest and giving me an opportunity to discuss Ukrainian dating from a Ukrainian woman’s point of view ?

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  • Dino May 1, 2011, 6:27 pm

    Hi Krystyna

    I have read your blog. I must say, I’m very new to online dating and I’m not sure what I’m getting myself in for!!

    Basically I’ve heard a lot of scams about dating websites, and it remains a fact that you simply cannot trust a person you meet through the internet.

    My question is which website/s would you recommend to be trusted to use for dating, from your knowledge and experience?!?

  • Steven July 18, 2011, 4:40 am

    Hello Krystyna!

    You probably get this question alot. And I know every woman is different and it depends solely on her point of view. But generalizing, what are the views of Russian/Ukrainian women when comes to interracial dating and marriage?

  • Krystyna (Ukrainian Dating Blog) January 11, 2012, 5:48 pm

    Hello Steven,

    I wrote an article about interracial dating in Ukraine “Do Ukrainian ladies date only white men?” (URL: http://ukrainiandatingblog.com/2011/10/ukrainian-ladies-date-only-white-men/).

    This question is very interesting and controversial as well. Based on historical events, there are still some prejudices against non-Caucasian men in Ukraine (as you know, 95% of the population of Ukraine is white). The problem is that the former Soviet Union was closed for foreigners for a long time and Ukrainian society became more or less a closed society. For this reason, Ukrainian girls could date only Ukrainian “white” men. Today, non-Caucasian men are still considered to be exotic for Ukrainian ladies. It is still rarely that Ukrainian women start an interracial relationship.

    In conclusion, I would like to say that skin color is not the most important thing in the relationship. Love, security, respect, and care can make wonder!

    Take care,


  • Krystyna (Ukrainian Dating Blog) January 11, 2012, 6:03 pm

    Hello Dino,

    I have written some articles about Ukrainian dating scammers and read a lot of online reviews of scam victims. Unfortunately, there are a lot of scam artists out there that are willing to take advantage of a lonely guy, by running a Ukrainian dating scam. There are some simple rules not to become a scam victim. The first rule is the moment any girl who you meet online asks for money, that is a red flag that she is a scammer.

    The Ukraine women scam artist specializes in getting a man to fall for a woman by sending pictures and love letters, until they finally ask for money.

    Do not send one cent to anyone who you have not met in person; no legitimate Ukrainian girl will ask you for money or anything else before meeting you as she does not want to be associated with these spammer scammers.

    There are a few well-known dating services: UkraineDate, Anastasia, Elena’s Models, LoveMe and A Pretty Woman. From my personal experience, I’ve collected good experiences with A Pretty Woman & LoveMe. I registered on these sites 8-5 years ago and met some nice men from the USA and Canada. I haven’t found the right man for life through these dating services, but not because of the sites. There was no chemie between us when we met in person. You try

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  • Allan Wong January 30, 2012, 9:55 pm

    Hi Krystyna,

    Hope you are doing great and happy in life ya. I’m a chinese men from malaysia and i have gone thru most of the blogs u posted online ya. It is really great stuff u’ve been doing here and so happy to know that skin colour is not the barrier to get to know or win Ukrainian’s ladies Heart. I’ll work even harder and try to visit Ukraine someday hopefully soon.

    Take care Lots,


  • Andy February 6, 2012, 8:30 am

    Hi Krystyna,

    You make some very interesting & valid points in your blogs, they are always interesting learning curves.

    I have thought about online dating, the only reason I haven’t bothered is due to the fact that I am unable to have sexual intercourse, over here in the UK, due to my age, being single, having never had children, I am considered to be gay, I am not an acceptable member of society. Obviously for most, sex plays a big role in relationships, as I am unable, I have accepted this as a fact of life, I was wondering, how are shall we say, asexuals accepted in FSU countries, would it be worth my time to look for a partner of around my age from an FSU country?

    I have known people who have used Russian dating sites, the one big bug bear they have is that these agencies don’t say to women not to send to men who will not be interested, I have a friend who just dropped an agency as he was looking for a lady between 40 & 50, (he is a 45 year old widower with children) the agency were sending him letters from 18 year olds, like he said, he has children older than most of the women that were writing to him, is this a common fault with all agencies?

    Thank you for your time,

    Take care

  • Jennifer March 26, 2012, 3:22 am

    My boyfriend..no longer …..is dating a ukranian woman who is 36 years younger, it is sick on behalf of both of them, she is after his money