This is an article that points out some of the positive characteristics of Chinese women in regards to family, love, relationships and marriage. According to the author, Chinese women have traits that appeal to many foreign men and more men are traveling to China on romance tours to meet these women.
The author almost makes Chinese women sound subservient but I don’t think that is the intention. At least I hope not. I had a Chinese lady friend and I can tell you she was very strong and direct and definitely not subservient. But she was from Hong Kong which is different from mainland China which is less developed.
One thing I’ve noted browsing one of the popular international introductions sites that we like, there are Chinese women in their early to late forty’s that look like they are early thirty. This could be a very positive thing for a more mature man that doesn’t want to marry a “teenager” or someone half his age.
These older Chinese women really seem to take good care of themselves and they dress very stylish with sex appeal. Might be worth a look for you men that are in your 50’s and looking for someone closer to your own age yet very beautiful and appealing
About Chinese Women (Why They May Be Right For Western Men)
Jan 12, 2010 in Dating
John Abbot asked:
If you’re currently a member a web dating site about Asian women or Chinese women then you’re probably there because you’re looking for a change from the type of personal relationships that now seem to exist between Western Men and Western Women. You’re tired of women who grew up in the “ME” generation, always looking strictly for “What’s in this relationship for me?” Nowadays, when you meet a new Western Woman who you find attractive, before the conversation has even really begun, she’s already drilling you about your occupation and your assets. How much money do you make and how much “stuff” do you have.
You’ve heard that Chinese Women are different than that, so you’re online to check it out.
Well first, let’s be honest. A Chinese Woman will also want to know that you have an income and that you are financially stable. Like women everywhere, she also wants a secure future. The difference is, most Chinese Women come from a world where a normal job is a great job, a simple home is a great home, and family is everything. Will there be food on the table: good enough. Will we have a home that I can clean and cook in and make comfortable for you: good enough. You’re a truck driver (mechanic, teacher, male nurse, etc): that’s fantastic. Just be reliable.
If you want a simple life where you do your job, which is the primary income earner, and she does her job, which is manage the home and family, then Chinese women make great life partners. That’s not to say that she won’t help you with business if that’s what you want, but you’ll be the boss. And it doesn’t mean she’s not prepared to have a job too. She will likely prove to be a very hard worker. It does mean that running the home is her job as well. You will have a say in all the important decisions, but when it comes to day to day operations sit back and let her take over, it’s what she does best.
But here is the most important thing, a Chinese Woman marries for life. Once she commits, she will invest every ounce of her being into your future, your home, your family and your life together. If that is the kind of wife you want, then you’re in the right place.
Her priorities in approximate order are husband and children, parents (hers and yours), home, face (what does the world think of your family), herself, her importance to you, her job, her friends.
Chinese women want to love you and they want to be loved by you. Unlike Western Women, they will not be out to instantly change you the moment they have their grip on you. So long as you meet two requirements they will be happy. First, you must love them. Second, you must not be frivolous with money; that is you won’t spend your last dime on whiskey when the kids are hungry. Well frankly, if you are that frivolous with money then you really need a Chinese Woman more than she needs you.
Chinese women like to spend as much time with you as possible. The more you can be together the happier they are. They’re happy to go out with you and play, spend time at the movies, relax in a pub with your friends, walk on a beach, anything so long as she is with you. Equally a quiet night at home is perfect. To her, time with her husband is important. But that doesn’t mean you have to be with her every moment, it just means that every moment of your time you do give he will be appreciated.