Why Chinese Women Are Becoming More Popular With Western Men

Stylish Chinese woman

Stylish Chinese woman

This is an article that points out some of the positive characteristics of Chinese women in regards to family, love,  relationships and marriage. According to the author, Chinese women have traits that appeal to many foreign men and more men are traveling to China on romance tours to meet these women.

The author almost makes Chinese women sound subservient but I don’t think that is the intention. At least I hope not. I had a Chinese lady friend and I can tell you she was very strong and direct and definitely not subservient. But she was from Hong Kong which is different from mainland China which is less developed.

One thing I’ve noted browsing one of the popular international introductions sites that we like, there are Chinese women in their early to late forty’s that look like they are early thirty. This could be a very positive thing for a more mature man that doesn’t want to marry a “teenager” or someone half his age.

These older Chinese women really seem to take good care of themselves and they dress very stylish with sex appeal. Might be worth a look for you men that are in your 50’s and looking for someone closer to your own age yet very beautiful and appealing


About Chinese Women (Why They May Be Right For Western Men)
Jan 12, 2010 in Dating
John Abbot asked:

If you’re currently a member a web dating site about Asian women or Chinese women then you’re probably there because you’re looking for a change from the type of personal relationships that now seem to exist between Western Men and Western Women. You’re tired of women who grew up in the “ME” generation, always looking strictly for “What’s in this relationship for me?” Nowadays, when you meet a new Western Woman who you find attractive, before the conversation has even really begun, she’s already drilling you about your occupation and your assets. How much money do you make and how much “stuff” do you have.

You’ve heard that Chinese Women are different than that, so you’re online to check it out.

Well first, let’s be honest. A Chinese Woman will also want to know that you have an income and that you are financially stable. Like women everywhere, she also wants a secure future. The difference is, most Chinese Women come from a world where a normal job is a great job, a simple home is a great home, and family is everything. Will there be food on the table: good enough. Will we have a home that I can clean and cook in and make comfortable for you: good enough. You’re a truck driver (mechanic, teacher, male nurse, etc): that’s fantastic. Just be reliable.

If you want a simple life where you do your job, which is the primary income earner, and she does her job, which is manage the home and family, then Chinese women make great life partners. That’s not to say that she won’t help you with business if that’s what you want, but you’ll be the boss. And it doesn’t mean she’s not prepared to have a job too. She will likely prove to be a very hard worker. It does mean that running the home is her job as well. You will have a say in all the important decisions, but when it comes to day to day operations sit back and let her take over, it’s what she does best.

But here is the most important thing, a Chinese Woman marries for life. Once she commits, she will invest every ounce of her being into your future, your home, your family and your life together. If that is the kind of wife you want, then you’re in the right place.

Her priorities in approximate order are husband and children, parents (hers and yours), home, face (what does the world think of your family), herself, her importance to you, her job, her friends.

Chinese women want to love you and they want to be loved by you. Unlike Western Women, they will not be out to instantly change you the moment they have their grip on you. So long as you meet two requirements they will be happy. First, you must love them. Second, you must not be frivolous with money; that is you won’t spend your last dime on whiskey when the kids are hungry. Well frankly, if you are that frivolous with money then you really need a Chinese Woman more than she needs you.

Chinese women like to spend as much time with you as possible. The more you can be together the happier they are. They’re happy to go out with you and play, spend time at the movies, relax in a pub with your friends, walk on a beach, anything so long as she is with you. Equally a quiet night at home is perfect. To her, time with her husband is important. But that doesn’t mean you have to be with her every moment, it just means that every moment of your time you do give he will be appreciated.


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  • admin August 14, 2010, 8:18 pm

    Georgie, your spelling is atrocious! Most of these women are looking for a man who is educated and a little more, should I say, refined.

  • george hiser August 14, 2010, 6:43 pm

    i’m not going to bore anyone with a long storry about myself or why’s whens and how’s ‘i’ll just say yes ,i think easten woman are exstreamly atractive and agree with the coments by outher people on this site ,the way they see life and values…but as they say,..not everything that shines is gold.!!…and i strongly feel that the dating ajents that show these woman from ages of 18 to 35 .40 so on are geting everybody at it for people who are genuinly interested in chinese woman and maybe even the girls to ….and no ,i havn’t had any bad exsperiancess with them or the like either or gettting all bitter and twisted .!!…it just all loocks and sounds so contradictrial to me and i’m sure it does to a lot of blokes….thats if there not complete suckers that is….i would say that the majority of the woman on there in there photos ,no disrispect to anybody that is but they loock to me like ex prostitutes loocking to find anouther way to make a scam an a buck..lot of bucks..any man will do between 30 and 99……i mean ,come on .!!!and even if one did start corisponding with her ,,,,,what nomber would he be ???? 1,000,000 and 1…so realy from my point of vew it all doesn’t add up as i’m sure any bloke with two brain cells would agree……….the hole conceps apears to me to be one big scam,..or is there anybody out there that would prove me wrong.?………don’t get me wrong ,i havn’t got a problem with woman ,……just as long as long as she know’s her place and does what i tell her to do without any of that bitchen bullshit…and keeps me satify’d when and how and where i want it ……!!……anyway less of that ,i realy am a nice guy ..!! so thats what i’v got to say .! infact i think i’ll just go down the club and pull me self some hot chick with all the fucking bullshit for a side order ..but realy all thoese little babes must work so hard ansering thousands of emails and letters that i’m surprised that they have time to go to work.!!……well thats my opinion ,just can’t buy into it i’m afraid ……………so if there is any chinese chick out there who want to take a gamble and wona cut the middle man out ,contact me …..i’d love to hear your coments on the meaning of life.!! chow ….georgie…!!

  • Jayson December 27, 2010, 1:23 pm

    I am really interested in possibly being contacted by 1 or more of your ladies. I am 35 yrs old, divorced, white with 2 children (girls). I am tired of looking for the right girl where I am, maybe I will give there a shot

  • John Jones January 15, 2012, 11:02 pm

    George you are a sick man. You will never have a relationship with a real woman other than a prostitute. I have been married to a chinese woman 15 years younger. It was a mistake. I have many chinese friends who told me out of 1000 chinese women I picked a bad one who deceived and lied. But she was faithful. Now I am married to a chinese woman closer to my age. She was already here in the U.S. and is a great lady. I have never had a woman that takes care of me like she does. All she wants is love, respect and affection. And she gives me her all. Yes I did have to coach and teach in the bedroom. She had only been with one man in the past, her ex chinese husband. She enjoys the attention. I do not make the money I did years ago with this failing economy and she works and we keep all our money in one back account. Not like my last wife that had access to my account, kept all her money in her account and I paid everything. My new wife pays all our bills from our account and she does not waste money. An older chinese woman really only wants love and respect. Appreciation for what she does. Wants to spend time with her husband. Not be lied to. It is true that older divorced chinese women are not wanted by chinese men. But they do not want to be abused either. My wife was emotionally and physically abused by her ex. It does take awhile for her to fully trust you. Once she does your world is her world. When you make decisions she does want you to listen to her opinion. She will not demand you do what she says. And when she is mad you need to listen. I am the type that will not take blame just to smooth over a situation. I will listen and we discuss it. The rule in our house is that we never go to bed angry.